Fair enough. At the end of the day, I understand it now. I think it could have had something to do with the fact that when I did the training, there was no option to turn the confirmed opt-in off, before some aweber activity, so the process was very convoluted.

But fair enough if it's just me. The tech side of things was always a challenge for me, and having big breaks for creativity hasn't helped that either. 

Onwards.